ability to change your own and see other users pronouns

[nulla-git]

found that I wasn't able to do it on abaddon and figured i'd make an issue since it doesn't seem like anybody has brought it up

[ouwou]

i dont think im going to support changing it because editing your profile in general seems to be a very sensitive route discord-wise (frequent captchas) and i dont want to get peoples account disabled. viewing will come at some point