ONNX 1.17.0 integration remaining work: fix XnnpackEP test failures

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Describe the issue

in onnxruntime/test/providers/xnnpack/xnnpack_basic_test.cc find:
TEST(XnnpackEP, DISABLED_TestMaxPool) { // NOT_IMPLEMENTED : Could not find an implementation for MaxPool(22) node with name 'node'
TEST(XnnpackEP, DISABLED_TestConvTranspose_With_Outputpadding) { // NOT_IMPLEMENTED : Could not find an implementation for ConvTranspose(22) node with name 'node'
TEST(XnnpackEP, DISABLED_TestConvTranspose_With_OutputShape) { // NOT_IMPLEMENTED : Could not find an implementation for ConvTranspose(22) node with name 'node'

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Urgency

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Platform

Windows

OS Version

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ONNX Runtime Installation

Built from Source

ONNX Runtime Version or Commit ID

1.21.0

ONNX Runtime API

C++

Architecture

X64

Execution Provider

Other / Unknown

Execution Provider Library Version

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